Monday, September 12, 2011

Addressing a BELONGINGNESS DEFICIENCY

24th SUNDAY OF ORDINARY TIME  (2011)
Reflections on  Sirach 27:30-28:7  /  Ps 103:1-2, 3-4, 9-10, 11-12 / Romans 14:7-9 /   Matthew 18:21-35

by Frank D.B. Savadera, SJ

Today September 11, we remember that most sad and unfortunate day TEN YEARS AGO when at least four commercial planes carrying innocent civilians were hijacked and made to crash onto strategic areas around the United States, particularly unto the world-famous commercial hub the Twin Towers of the World Trade Center and the US Pentagon.  Yes ... that was ten years ago already today.  I don’t know where you were at that time.   

I remember that we were all gathered at the Jesuit Recreation Room in Manila having a meeting when someone alerted us to tune in to CNN.  True enough, television (not to mention Cable TV) nowadays allows us to view LIVE that which transpires miles away from us.  I thought of the entire scene as simply something from the movies.  Not a few video cameras, personal and commercial videos were able to capture the sights and sounds of the event at different angles and perspectives.

What was most interesting for me then ... aside from the telecast and quite surreal depiction of death and destruction (i.e., people running away from the scene covered with ash or occupants of the building falling or jumping off the tall structure, etc.) ... was a video (I couldn’t seem to find it on Youtube anymore) of children and adults (purportedly Muslims) who were apparently rejoicing and partying in the streets of major Muslim capitals in the middle east, as if celebrating victory over a long-time undefeated enemy. 

More than 3000 people reportedly perished in the September 11 attacks ... and even until now, I still fail to comprehend how much rejoicing and celebration can come amidst a tragedy that had caused a lot of pain and misery for many. 

More than understanding how such a superpower as the United States of America had become prone and vulnerable to terrorist attacks, the contrasting images of tragedy (on one hand) and rejoicing (on the other) allowed me to ponder deeply about the GREAT DIVIDE ... that GREAT DIVISION that continues to exist among people. 

We need not look far.  Even as we sit around, we know also that a GREAT DIVIDE (either that be a difference in social status, political perspective, etc.) tends to emphasize how DIFFERENT we are from one another. 

To STRESS that one is different from us or “US” being different from others can actually bring about what we may call a CRISIS OF BELONGING.   They do not belong with us or US, we do not belong with them nor share their sentiments.  Imagine once again, CNN depicting the horrors of death and destruction while simultaneously playing a video of Muslim children and adults rejoicing as if they’ve just won a crucial basketball game.  What a great DIVIDE, a stark contrast of perspectives indeed. 

Saint Paul’s letter to the Romans tells us:  “For if we live, we live for the Lord, and if we die, we die for the Lord; so then, whether we live or die, we are the Lord's.”  WE ALL BELONG TO GOD and this must predominate our consciousness each time we are tempted t feel that we have become different from others or others different from us.   This note from Saint Paul truly must instill in our minds that WE ... ALL OF US BELONG TO GOD ... and that whatever MAN-MADE distinctions we have created for ourselves ... in the EYES of GOD ... we are all the SAME.  Muslim, Christians or of whatever faith and temperament ... WE ALL BELONG TO GOD.

I think for the sake of a healthier mental health, we all may need to acknowledge our needs to BELONG.  Peculiar diseases traced among orphans (called HOSPITALISM or a kind of malnutrition or MARASMUS) which cause  recurring sicknesses ... point to what we may call BELONGINESS DEFICIENCY ... a feeling of being ALIENATED, a feeling of being TOTALLY DIFFERENT and SEPARATED from others.   Among the orphans, BELONGINESS DEFICIENCY results from being insufficiently fed, cuddled, touched and played with.   You can imagine when they grow up ... how these orphans in their adult life will long to be fed and cuddled and touched.   BELONGINESS DEFICIENCY.  There is such a thing! 

All the more ... given our current context of a world that continues to instill a GREAT DIVIDE among people ... must we further stress that WE ALL BELONG TO GOD!  Whether we live or we die, we belong to the Lord.  For this is why Christ died and came back to life, that he might be Lord of ALL ... regardless of our varying circumstances in life.

WE ALL NEED TO WORK TO ASSURE THAT NO ONE IS ALIENATED FROM OTHERS ... THAT NO ONE HAS A SPECIAL PRIVILEGE THAN OTHERS.  I think this is the point of our Scripture readings for the day ... us who feel a certain belongingess to and identification with God ... must all work to bridge distinctions and divisions among peoples.     

According to the Book of SIRACH, WRATH and ANGER  against fellows have no place in a world that values belonginess with God.  Wrath and anger ... contributes to division and as such Sirach asks us:  “Could anyone nourish anger against another and expect healing from the LORD?  Could anyone who refuse mercy for another, seek pardon for his own sins?”    Amidst the imperfection we see around us, is the challenge to ... nevertheless ... make people feel that they belong ... allow people to feel that they are not excluded or alienated.  BECAUSE in the first place, this is what God wishes us to feel ... that to Him we belong. 

An interesting line which I picked up from the Gospel is I think worth our attention.  The WICKED SERVANT begged his master:  'Be patient with me, and I will pay you back in full.'  Thus moved with compassion the master let him go and forgave him the loan.   But then we know how the story went.  After being pardoned for his debt, the wicked servant begins harassing his own servant.   Be patient with me and I will pay you back in full.  God can truly be patient with us.  But then can we truly truly pay him back IN FULL?  The story of the wicked servant is precisely a depiction of how we FAIL to PAY GOD BACK in full ... that we need to depend on the LOVE and GRACE of God ... BE PATIENT WITH ME, O Lord ... even if  I would have difficulty paying you back in full.


September 11 ... ten years ago will always stay in our consciousness as a symbol of DIVISION among peoples in the world.  A GREAT DIVIDE exists even among us.    We are asked to reflect on HOW ALL OF US BELONG TO GOD and must all work to BRIDGE THE GAP between peoples ... that ANGER and WRATH have no place among those who claim BELONGINESS to God.  And in acknowledging our own weakness, we cannot not but DEPEND ON GOD to continue being PATIENT with us for our FAILURES to PAY HIM BACK IN FULL.  May our  PSALM for today assure us of  a God who is completely patient with us :  The Lord is kind and merciful, slow to anger, and rich in compassion.  THIS IS THE GOD TO WHOM WE ALL WISH TO BELONG.  AMEN.